Blair Lindsey’s wedding day takes a surprising turn
By Kirstie Boone
Photography by Amy Jo Photography
Wedding day is a magical time for every bride, but Blair Minick Lindsey’s wedding took a little extra magic to pull off. Blair knew that planning an outdoor wedding would come with its own obstacles, but nothing could have prepared her for the unforeseen challenges her wedding would bring. Blair planned her wedding to her fiancé, Hal Lindsey, for Oct. 3, 2015 in Columbia, South Carolina. This day will forever be special in Blair’s heart, but this day was also the date of the beginning of the tragic “thousand-year flood” that devastated much of Columbia. Many of Blair’s long thought out plans were washed away, but she adjusted and created a special day despite the devastation.
Blair began carefully planning her dream wedding after Hal proposed in Washington, D.C. on Oct. 5, 2014. Hal took Blair to church at the National Cathedral and proposed afterward in the Bishop’s Gardens. When Blair began planning, she knew she wanted something outdoors in Columbia, but realized that pulling off an outdoor wedding could be a complicated feat. Blair was determined though, and envisioned lights in the trees and beautiful white flowers. She found the perfect location for her wedding and reception off of the Congaree River on her fiancé’s parent’s property. Blair chose to hold the ceremony by the river and the reception in front of the family’s beautiful, plantation-style home. She worked tirelessly to keep all of the many details organized. Her future father-in-law built an arbor for the soon to be Mr. and Mrs. to stand under during the ceremony.
Blair knew that South Carolina Octobers were notorious for beautiful weather, and everyone she spoke with agreed that October would be the best weather for a fall wedding. As she checked the forecast in the month leading up to the big day, Blair hoped for beautiful, clear skies and sunshine. Blair began feeling nervous when she checked the forecast on Sunday, Sep. 27 and there was a 10 percent chance of rain on Saturday. Unfortunately, the chance continued to grow, and by Thursday morning there was a 100 percent chance of rain. By around 10:00 a.m. Thursday, Blair knew that she was going to have to change plans. The forecast was not for the typical rain shower; it was predicted that 12 to 24 inches of rain would fall in Columbia.
Blair cried as she came to the heartbreaking realization that she was going to have to change her carefully laid out plans. She had to alter not only the wedding ceremony, but also the reception which was supposed to be outside as well. Reverend Dane Boston planned to marry the couple, and he helped them with the venue changes. The venue for the ceremony changed twice, but the chapel of Trinity Episcopal Church happened to be open and the couple married there. Blair’s backup plan for the reception had previously been to put up a tent in the original location, but she knew that the approaching storm was going to require more than a tent. Her sister-in-law helped her find a new reception venue, 300 Senate. This venue still had the atmosphere she was trying to capture on her special day, which was very important to Blair.
Blair set out to inform her wedding party and guests of the changes by using WedTexts. WedTexts is a communication tool that makes it easy for engaged couples to communicate with their wedding party and guests. Brides can upload contacts into the WedTexts app and send out mass texts with details, directions and maps. Blair and Hal were thus able to quickly communicate with their guests and wedding party about the change of plans.
Blair says she reached a breaking point at 11:00 a.m. on the day of the wedding when her band called to cancel because of the rain. She was supposed to be getting her hair and make-up done, but this issue ultimately caused her to be two hours behind. Despite the many changes in plans, Amy Jo Wright, owner of Amy Jo Photography, managed to capture magical photographs of the couple. Blair says that she is extremely grateful and blessed that Amy Jo was the one she chose to photograph the day, and the rain ended up creating some beautiful effects in the pictures. Amy Jo came prepared with a calm and positive attitude, which helped Blair and Hal enjoy every moment. Blair and Hal took pictures together before the ceremony, and Blair was very worried about being late. Amy Jo told Blair not to worry, because the wedding couldn’t go on without her!
Blair says she found much happiness through her husband’s positivity. Hal stayed positive for her and handled the issues Blair could not. Blair says she had to focus on the purpose of the day, which was to marry the man of her dreams, and in the end everything turned out beautifully. Her favorite memory from the day is getting out of the car for the first look. Hal opened the door of the car and when Blair emerged to see her future husband she knew everything was going to be perfect. Even though they faced many obstacles, Blair and Hal’s wedding day is one they will never forget. They were able to stay positive in the face of chaos—who could ask for a better start to their marriage together.